dear abby

My house feels like a maze of risky contact. Every since the city locked down, one of my housemates decided to WFH from their parents house, but comes home every weekend and invites their college girlfriend over to hang out. I’m personally not comfortable interacting with anyone outside my household so that fact that he is at his family’s and she is with roommates near campus is unsettling for me. The rest of the roommates and I are slightly uncomfortable (and haven’t said anything because we are bbs) but that goes out the door the moment they come home and it becomes a more social scene. I physically feel so weird sitting and watching tv with any of the roomies now because they have all hung out with them, while I stayed in my room virtually the whole weekend. Am I being extra? How much of a fuss is it to decide to quarantine in one single place and not split time between houses? Am I really the only one in this house of adults that knows how to follow guidelines 🙃?!