introspection

I am a psychologist and I think CV has posed a unique, never before couples challenge....one that I am facing and which is causing arguments in my normally quite peaceful and healthy marriage......Because it's a matter of life and death. For me, my family, friends, my town, my state, and my country. My husband is a bright and caring man, but he can't quite accept that ideally (in my opinion) we should just stay at home, walk our pups in the woods, and not go into any store or be with anyone (especially not in their house) until this peaks and clears. He is not embracing the total lock down concept which leaves me feeling vulnerable, scared, and angry. Even if he isn't 'doing it' (breaking the isolation), he's talking about possibly doing it in the near future. Why? Why can't people just stay in their homes and be safe for one month to stop the spread and save lives? Why can't they get it how dangerous this is? I just don't understand.