irresponsible and morally dubious

Not sure if this is what you’re looking for, because my boyfriend and I are NOT quarantining together, but I’m worried we’ll break up because of it. While I am at home quarantining, my boyfriend is doing spring break on south padre island which has not shut down or cancelled ANY of their spring break plans. I’ve stressed to my boyfriend about how dangerous this is, not necessarily to him, but to any people he may spread it to that may not be as fortunate to him, and he gets frustrated that I’m going to make him worry and ruin his trip. I, of course, think he SHOULD worry and the trip SHOULD be canceled. I’m sympathetic to how disappointing that must be but when lives are at stake, I just think it’s irresponsible and morally dubious not to! I hope we don’t, but this could be one of our only real fights we’ve ever had.

UPDATE: unfortunately it’s too late- he’s already driving there with his friends. I keep telling him to turn around and come back, but I really don’t think it’s any use at this point. I’m gonna lose my mind while *I* quarantine by myself!