something old, something new, something borrowed, something flu

My friend's wedding is this weekend. She's freaking out trying to make arrangements to still have it. I have tried to gently tell her that she should just cancel it and get married later this year. Or just have a quick ceremony  with the Justice of the Peace and have a 'wedding' later. She isn't hearing it, is in full-blown panic mode and is scrambling to make it happen as the venue, vendors, officiant, bridesmaids/groomsmen and guests all cancel. I still haven't told her if I'm still going or not. I'm thinking nooooooo.........