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When I bring up annoyances I have with my wife and things she does, I'm an unappreciative gaslighter not allowing her to have emotions. When she brings up annoyances with me, I'm expected to present a ten point plan for change in the future and to recognize the psychosocial patterns that undergird my entire existence. Getting to the point where I want to throw on the full cut of SHOAH every time someone says "my emotional labour".